Sunday, September 26, 2010

Dad



Dennis Ruel Brown, 66, finished his work on earth Wednesday, September 22, at 7:30 p.m. He died as he lived -- working hard in the service of others. Dennis suffered a heart attack while helping one of his sons re-plumb his house in Tonica, Illinois.

Dennis was born on Feb. 15, 1944 in Malad, Idaho, to Leo and Leora Brown. He spent his childhood milking cows, raising grain, fixing machines, wrestling and playing football. He enjoyed good relationships with his three brothers and one sister. He also was always a proud son and loved his parents very much. Though he wasn't a stranger to trouble as a young man, his sense of right and wrong was always strong and bright. He served a 21/2-year mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Santiago, Chile, and while there, he taught and baptized many people.

Once home from his mission, Dennis enrolled at Ricks College in Rexburg, Idaho, in 1967 and there met Laurie Sheffield. The two met in September, became engaged in October and were married in November in the Salt Lake City LDS Temple. This swift beginning led to a nearly 44-year marriage that produced four sons, four daughters-in-law and 13 grandchildren.

Except for a brief time working in the insurance industry, Dennis spent his entire professional career as a banker. Though he spent a good portion of those years in managerial and leadership positions, he was at his best as a loan officer, helping farmers and small-business owners in southeastern Idaho. Dennis was regularly recognized for his diligence and determination in doing the best job possible for people. In his career, he worked for First Security Bank, West One Bank, U.S. Bank, and, most recently, Zion's Bank.

Dennis also had a distinguished career in the United States National Guard. Enlisting in 1969, he was commissioned as an officer in 1970. His primary specialty was in logistics and he was awarded commendations for his abilities to plan and execute the movements and organization of hundreds of men and thousands of tons of equipment and food. Dennis always took great pride in his military service and in the experiences and friendships it brought him. He retired as a major after nearly 30 years in the Guard.

Though he had many accomplishments as a businessman and a soldier, Dennis Brown's greatest source of satisfaction in life was his family. He was devoted to his wife, Laurie, and never spared any effort or expense to make her comfortable and happy. He often remarked privately that he felt had "married up" and was lucky to be married to such a good woman.

He was deeply proud of each of his sons and considered them his best friends. Each new daughter-in-law brought him a new friendship and a new opponent in games like Monopoly and Acquire. As tough-minded and rough as Dennis could be, he was at his most tender and loving with his grandchildren. Each of his 13 grandchildren spent time balanced on his knee while he kissed his or her bald head, saying, "You are the best baby in the world. Yes, you are." In addition to his missionary service as a young man, Dennis served in Elders Quorum presidencies, High Priest Group leadership, as a home teacher, as a ward clerk, as a Sunday school teacher and as the instructor of a class on financial health.

Dennis rarely did things for himself. His main hobby was visiting his children and helping repair and improve their houses and their cars. He enjoyed mowing his neighbors' lawns and snow-blowing their sidewalks. He rarely waited to be asked to serve others, but instead simply did what needed to be done without waiting around for praise, thanks, or recognition. He was the very best of men. Those who knew him will miss him profoundly.

Dennis is survived by his wife, Laurie; and his four sons, Jason (Mindy), Mark (Suzanne), David (Melanie) and Daniel (Shalee). His grandchildren are Dylan, Megan, Kate, Jonah, Maryn, Avery, Parker, Brianna, Kyle, Kameron, Naomi, Hadley and Blake.

Dennis was preceded in death by his father, Leo; and his younger brother, Roy.

Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m. Monday Sept. 27, 2010 at the Rigby Stake Center. The family will visit with friends from 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Sunday at Eckersell Memorial Chapel and from 8:30 a.m. to 9:45 a.m. Monday at the church. Burial will be in Pleasant View Cemetery near Malad City, Idaho.

Condolences may be sent to the family online at www.eckersellfuneralhome.com.

8 comments:

Paul and Linda said...

You did your Father proud, Mark. Linda and I enjoyed the short time we were with him during his visits to Michigan. We send our prayers to you and the family at this difficult time. We look forward to continuing our future association with him.

Paul and Linda

J'Amy Day said...

I have been thinking about you all week. I am so sorry that you lost your Dad. I love how his tribute says that "He died as he lived -- working hard in the service of others." What a great example that we can pattern our lives after. I know how much you love him and how much he will be missed.

Amy

Shauna said...

What a beautiful tribute Mark. Our prayers continue go out to you this week.

melanie said...

I'm so sorry too, Mark. Even knowing what we know, the heartache is real and it is hard. I loved the same part Amy quoted. It is a beautiful tribute.

Shalee said...

I have had several people comment to me that this was the best written obituary they have ever seen. It is awesome.

Erin said...

@ Shalee, I would have to agree. Erin and I were very touched by the obituary. Mostly, because we know what a generous and loving man Dennis was, and what an amazing grandfather. I am sure that he would have rather been nowhere else than seeing Avery Jane being baptized last week.
-Ben

Darlene Young said...

Oh, Mark, just found this. I'm sorry.

Karen said...

This picture is priceless Mark. You, your brothers and your families are a great tribute to your parents. It was an inspiration to all of us who were able to be with you. I send my love to you and yours.